The saying goes that ‘March roars in like a lion.’ I hope you have your tickets for the Irene Crosetti Ravioli Feed as it is always a great night for our parish, and we have already exceeded past year’s reservations! Another tradition in March is to have a parish ‘workday.’ Please consider giving an hour or two to shine up the parish site we call our spiritual home. The date will either be Saturday, March 29 or Saturday, April 5 and will be settled on by next week.
This week we begin the season of Lent which started a long time ago as an intense period for those who would be baptized on Easter and join the Church. Now it is a season for all of us to reflect on our Baptism and membership in the Church. Fr. Dennis Hanley was a Maryknoll priest who actually spent some of his youth in my hometown parish before I was born. He is one of the twenty-six who were ordained priests who grew up in St. Ignatius Parish in Hicksville, NY. He gives a good description of Lent:
Happy Lent! Most people don’t know what the word “Lent” means, yet I’m sure they’ve gone through it all their lives. Lent means springtime. Believe it or not, it means springtime. And what it is short for lengthening, you see. And lengthening days, now that’s a sign that winter is over, and the springtime draws near, so that’s what Lent means.
Most people have very dark thoughts about Lent. So, the first thing to learn about Lent is it’s not meant to be a dark period. It’s supposed to be filled with hope, just as Advent.
Christians are people who live on hope. They don’t live on money; they don’t live on good friends; they live on hope.
And that means that we hear often about faith, and we hear often about love, but hope is the person that gets up every morning and says, “Give it another try.”
Lent is a time where we’re supposed to give up things. But many years ago, I met a priest. He said, “You should stop saying what you should give up and start asking what we can do.”
And he had a whole list: you can be compassionate to the rest of the family or be compassionate to those who are suffering. You can try to love and understand when all love and understanding seems empty, when the people which you are with or the people that you love but they can’t seem to get things straight…
Compassion is God’s — God’s own special virtue. He is the compassionate one. Sometimes we think of God as creating sort of like little difficulties that we might overcome and gain merit or whatever that was. It’s not true. God can only love.
He can’t hate. He can’t hold grudges. Although when you read the Old Testament, a way of understanding God is to see His negative side, so they always talk about God as complaining about His people not living up to their promises and all of these things. And it’s true. But he says in the depths of great love He bargains with His people.
The Jews had a great understanding about God. They saw Him as a bargainer. Abraham used to pray to God in this way. He would say, “You’ve got to help my cousin Lot, who is in terrible condition in one of those evil cities.”
And God would say, “Well, why should I help him, he never even thinks about me?”
And then Abraham pulls the string, he says, “But you’re God. You have to help.”
Everybody else can live life totally be selfish and awful and that, but not God. He’s not allowed, even if He could be. But He can’t be, He doesn’t know how to be. God doesn’t know how to be angry, fierce, and destructive — or small minded.
Remember that: God loves, God lives, God serves. What are we supposed to do? We’re supposed to live, love, and serve. It’s lasted two thousand years. That’s the doctrine of the Messiah.
Why did Jesus come? “I came to love, to live with you and to serve.”
You ask the saints, “What should I do to be a saint?” Love, live with people, open your heart to people. One is to learn how to be patient with people, and the second one is to learn how to bring yourself and others a new flowering of hope.
And it will give you the best gift of all, which is to face yourself so that you can live with wonderful opening faith, with great love in your heart, but, most of all, to keep your hope strong and let no one take away from you what God has given to you, which is how to have faith, how to have hope and, most of all, how to love each other.”
Let us pray this Lent for all who are approaching the Sacraments of Initiation that will make them part of us as a Church. Let us pray for all who are struggling in body, mind and or spirit. May they find comfort in this season and know God’s love by our care, concern, and love.